Saturday, July 23, 2022

The Day My Grandparents saw a UFO

 

52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks: Week 29  (July 18-24)

Prompt: Fun Fact

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 I've mentioned this before but it is one of the most fun things that I know about my paternal grandparents, Johnnie and Eva Golightley. 

 My Grandpa was a story teller. He loved nothing more than sharing  the fun things that had happened to him or other family members. I loved hearing the stories of how he and my Dad were truckers when my Dad was young.  Dad got his commercial driver's license when he was only 15 and then went with Grandpa when he was long haul trucking. Dad started driving a gravel truck before he was 15 but that is another story to tell.

 My new husband and I were visiting my Grandparents in Oklahoma when my Grandpa told us this story (among others) sitting around their kitchen table. 

Early in their marriage or perhaps it was while dating, my Grandparents were traveling between Wellington and Belle Plaine, Kansas, when they saw something very strange.  A farmer on a tractor was plowing a field, going up and down each row as they normally do. Directly over his head about thirty feet in the air was a round saucer looking object. It was going up and down the rows with the farmer who did not seem to be aware of the object.  My Grandparents pulled over to the side of the road and watched the farmer and the object as they moved up and down several rows. Then all of a sudden the object shot straight up into the air and disappeared. 

Grandma was standing at the kitchen sink, while we were all seated at the kitchen table. She was always the rock of the family, the one who could be counted on at all times. I looked at Grandma and raised my eyebrow in a quizzical manner. Even though she was standing behind Grandpa and he couldn't see her, she carefully nodded her head.  It is possible to think that Grandpa might exaggerate to tell a better story, but my Grandma wouldn't.  I know they saw something that day.



 

Monday, July 4, 2022

Identity of Eliza Flynn

 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks: Week 26  (June 28- July 4)
Prompt: Identity
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I wrote about the Evans brothers who possibly were living with Eliza Flynn on the 1860 Adams County, MS census in my blog post of Aug 12, 2022.  Who was Eliza Flynn?

Eliza Flynn was born in Ireland in 1830 and was living in Adams County, Mississippi by 1860. The 1860 census doesn't asked for marriage status or relationship to others in the household, but it shows Eliza with 8 children from ages 6 months to 12 years old. She has no occupation listed nor any personal or real estate.  It looks like a blended family since there are two children named Mary and two children named John. That would indicate that Eliza had lost her spouse, and some of those children had lost both their parents.  Eliza was possibly caring for her brother or sister's children as well as her own.  Eliza had a great many stressors in her life. Since she was born in Ireland, it is likely that she did not have much if any family support near her. Besides taking care of 8 children alone, she was likely dealing with grief and a lack of money.

There is not another Eliza Flynn listed in the Adams County census for 1860, so it is likely the following information is about the same Eliza Flynn.



There was a resolution presented at the May 28th, 1867 Natchez City Council meeting, asking the city to provide $25.00 for the immediate needs of a certain lunatic, Eliza Flynn. It passed with the request that her friends take steps at the current probate session to have her placed in the state asylum.

On May 30th of 1867, there is a court hearing with a petition asking the court to declare Eliza Flynn insane. The testimonies of her neighbors state that she had not been able to govern herself since 1862.  
The petition states that she is without any relatives.  There is no mention of any children in the documents, nor does it mention how the judge ruled. It is likely that neighbors or relatives have taken over the care of the children by this time.

The Natchez Democrat newspaper on June 6th, 1867 published a notice that Eliza Flynn had been placed on the Quitman to go to the insane asylum in Jackson. 


In 1870, Eliza Flynn was listed in the Insane Asylum in Jackson, Mississippi, however her age is listed as 52 born in Pennsylvania when it should have been closer to 40 and born in Ireland.  Was this a mistake or is this a different Eliza Flynn?  There is also a Bridget  Flynn listed in the asylum. Her age is 42 and born in Ireland. Was there a mistake made in the census records which switched Bridget and Eliza's information?

I have found no other information on Eliza Flynn. She is not in the asylum in 1880, nor apparent in the census anywhere else. I haven't found a death record, marriage record or burial record for her after 1870.

I haven't found any of the 8 children in the 1870 census, but they could be under the last name of the family they are living with or just not in the census at all.  The 1870 census in Mississippi is known for missing a large number of families that were living there. During the chaos of the reconstruction, there were many families who refused to have any dealings with the government or "carpet baggers". Most of the children's names are very common so it is almost impossible to search for them by their first names of John, James, Mary, or Sarah.  I have searched for Jerry and Henry but haven't found any person the right age with the right name in Mississippi. The search is also complicated by the large number of people who are only listed by their initials and last names in this census.

I am puzzled about Eliza's identity and her relationship with the 8 children in her household in 1860.  I have a hypothesis about the identity of some of the children in my August 12, 2022 blog post, if you are intrigued with this mystery. 


General Quitman Ship: Could this be the ship that Eliza was placed on?


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