Grace Truman Jordan Evans

  

52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks: Week 3 (Jan 18-24)
Prompt: Namesake
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Grace Truman Jordan

 Grace Truman Jordan was born on April 6, 1909 to William and Minnie Lee Jordan.  There was a mystery pertaining to Minnie Lee’s parents. The only record I could find for years was the 1880 census record where M. L. Dottry, was living with her parents,  T  and J Dottery.  For years that is all we knew about her parents.  It seemed easy to assume that Grace Truman Jordan’s name might be the clue needed to find her grandparents. Surely, she was named after her grandfather, T Dottery, making his given name, Truman.

 Alas, that proved to be wrong, her grandfather’s name turned out to be Thomas G. Dottery, which is another story. Where did the name Truman come from?  It seemed like it should be a surname passed down. Could she have been a distant relative to Harry S Truman? That proved to be wrong, too. 

 In the 1850s, Sallie Rochester Ford published a serial story in the Christian Repository owned by her husband, Reverend Samuel Ford titled, Grace Truman, or Love and Principal.  The serial was published as a book in 1857 and republished multiple times[1].  The 1886 edition included an afterword in which “Ford noted that the work was semi-autobiographical and referenced her own personal and public struggle as she converted from Presbyterianism to the Baptist movement[2].” This book was influential in Baptist circles for many years.

 The two sides of the character, Grace Truman, spoke to many of the faithful Baptist women of the last half of the 1800s and early 1900s.  While Grace Truman was the epitome of the faithful, submissive, devoted wife, she was also a fierce warrior of her faith.  She reflected a strength that appealed to many women of that time. The book, Grace Truman, must have made an impression on Minnie Lee Dottery Jordan for her to have named her daughter, Grace Truman.  In fact, there were many girls named Grace Truman after different editions of the book were published. A search of the first name “Grace Truman” with no other information gives over 4 million results in Ancestry.com and 1,184 results in the family trees. 

Grace Truman Evans with niece, Christine and sons, John (Son) and Ed

 Grace Truman Jordan’s namesake was not another relative but a fictional character, a woman of faith. It gives an insight into the character and faith of her mother, Minnie Lee Dottery Jordan.

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[1]Sallie Rochester Ford.  https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sally_Rochester_Ford

[2] Sallie Rochester Ford: fiction, faith, and femininity: nineteenth-century Baptists offered two general, and different,  cultural messages to women within the church regarding social expectations. - Free Online Library (thefreelibrary.com). https://www.thefreelibrary.com/Sallie+Rochester+Ford:+fiction,+faith,+and+femininity:...-a0138811971

Gunslingers shoot down McCarley

52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks: Week 2- 2021
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Prompt: Family Legend

 In the old west, Malcom McCarley and one of his brothers, were fixing a fence. A couple of gunslingers came by and shot one of the brothers. Their father, Mitchel McCarley and another brother rode to Bowie to post a bond. The brother who was able to get away  and a fourth brother rode out after the killers. One of the brothers came back and the other was never seen again.  

 That is the family legend that my Mother brought home from a reunion one year. Despite my grilling her, that is all she knew. Was this a true story and if so, who was the McCarley brother who was shot by a gunslinger?   

 I was very curious about the idea of them riding to Bowie to post a bond.  I thought a bond is what you paid to get out of jail until your trial started. But a legal definition is that "someone receives a bond (monetary payment) and promises to engage in a specific act. Then a failure to perform results in them forfeiting the money. So a bond is an incentive to do something.  I went to the courthouse in Montague County, where Bowie, Texas is located.  While I found some very interesting things, but I didn't find anything about a bond being posted.  I could only guess that it was some type of reward for finding the killer.  

 As I discovered, many of the details in the original story were wrong. In sorting out the brothers, I started with reviewing Mitchel McCarley's sons and finding when they died. Using census records, I determined their last census record and was able to find the date of death for most of them.   Eli and James seemed to disappear after the 1900 census, so I began to concentrate on finding them.

 Then due to the new rootsweb message boards, I made contact with my Mother's 2nd cousin, Jim Hupp, gave me more details about the story as he had heard it. 

 Jim and Eli McCarley were repairing a fence that had been cut during the fence wars of Texas when a group of gunslingers rode up. Jim and Eli were unarmed but the gunslingers shot and killed Jim anyway. Eli got away. Their father, Mitchel McCarley, and another brother, Sidney, rode to Durant to post a reward. While they were gone, Eli and another brother, decided to ride out after them men who shot Jim. The unknown brother returned to Nocona, but the other brother disappeared. A few months later his family disappeared. It was believed that they went to California.

 As I continued to research, I found that James (Jim) McCarley died on April 6, 1904 and was buried in Marshall County, Oklahoma. Of the older boys in the family, Jim is the only one who died that early in the 1900s.  Eli disappeared in the county records around that time, so it appeared that part of the story is consistent. Since he died in Indian Territory, it makes more sense that  Mitchel and Sidney rode to Durant, Oklahoma rather than Bowie, Texas. I haven't been to the courthouse in Durant but the courthouse in Montague County where Bowie is located did not have any records about a reward or about the killing.

Sometime later, when the Library of Congress started digitizing newspapers in the "Chronicling America" collection, I found these articles in The Daily Ardmoreite. 

 April 8, 1904. Henry Paris, who was present at the killing of Jim McCarley by his brother, Oscar Paris, who escaped, was bound over without bail at his trial yesterday.

The Daily Ardmoreite, April 6, 1904.   Ardmore, I.T., April 8 - ? McCarley was shot and instantly killed Wednesday morning, three miles southeast of Madill. Oscar Paris is alleged to have done the shooting. The two men had quarreled about some land, and, it is said, Paris shot McCarley in the mouth, the ball passing through and breaking his neck. Both men were farmers. 

 

Another article, called it a disagreement among neighbors. Oscar Parish or Paris was eventually caught and bound over for trial.  I have searched the court records in several courthouses in Oklahoma and the pre statehood court records housed at the regional archives in Fort Worth, Texas, but I still have not found the trial of Oscar Parish. However the archivist in Ft Worth told me that if the case lasted past statehood, which was possible, then the records would still be at the Oklahoma courthouse.

 Just recently in searching the "Chronicling America" database, I found the following excerpt from a column titled " Technical Points Not in Favor: Criminal Court of Appeals Not Hunting for Excuses to Set Aside Verdicts" in The Guthrie Daily Leader, dated May 10, 1911.

The case of Oscar Paris, sentenced to one year in prison and fined $100 for manslaughter, is reversed in an opinion by Judge Doyle, because the state was allowed to impeach one of its own witnesses, whose testimony helped out Paris' claim of self-defense. Paris killed J.W. McCarly south of Madill on April 6, 1904. 

So, it appears that Oscar Paris/Parish, did not serve any time for killing Jim McCarley.I am still looking for the court case and the appeals. If as in our family story, Jim was unarmed, how could it be self defense? Perhaps that is another detail that was wrong.

And the brother who disappeared? According to census records, Malcolm and his wife, Cassie are living in Socorro, New Mexico in 1910 and Eli lived in Love County, Oklahoma in 1910 until his death in 1933. Love County is very near where the rest of the family was living during those years, so perhaps, it was Malcolm who disappeared from the family.

Godfrey Ragsdale

52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks: Week 1- 2021
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Prompt: Beginnings

Godfrey Ragsdale

Most of my family beginnings are in the early records of the new country, United States of America. Some go back to the colonization time period with only one line coming to America in the late 1800s.

 One of the earliest which seems as much myth as fact concerns the Ragsdale family.  The Ragsdale family goes back to Robert Ragsdale born in England in 1484.  His son, Henry, was born in 1510 in Kneeton, Nottinghamshire, England. I don't have all the documentation to prove the line back this far, but it is one of my goals this year to get the proofs back to colonial times. William Ragsdale, born in 1738, is my original DAR ancestor.

 Godfrey Ragsdale, Sr. was born in 1615 in Nottinghamshire, England and was the first Ragsdale to immigrate to the new world. Unfortunately, it did not turn out well for him and his wife, Mary.

 In 1642, Godfrey bought land from John Butler in Virginia near Old Town in Henrico County. In 1644, Opechancanough, chief of Tsenacomoco, led the third assault against the English Colonists.  There were approximately 400 colonials killed in the attack on the outlying plantations around Jamestown [1]. In the 1644 attack, Godfrey and his wife, Mary, lost their lives there. 

 Family tradition is that Godfrey and Mary, hid their son, Godfrey Jr. during the attack.  Their infant son was found after the attack and was raised by his maternal grandparents.  Godfrey Jr was willed land in 1646 from John Cookney. Speculation is that John Cookney was Godfrey Jr's maternal Grandfather, making his mother, Mary Cookney [2]. There is some disagreement in that some researchers believe the Cookney's were neighbors who found the infant and raised him as their own as they had no children. It may never be determined if his mother, Mary was actually a Cookney or was the daughter of another colonist in the area.

 Despite the harrowing circumstances of his infancy, Godfrey Ragsdale, Jr. lived to the approximate age of 69. His will was signed 27 April 1697, naming his wife, Rachell, and children, Godfrey the 3rd, Peter, Daniel, and daughter Rachell [3].

 I am descended from the Ragsdales through my paternal Grandmother, Evelyn "Eva" Maude Lamb.

                                      

 

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[1]Rountree, Helen C.  Opechancanough (d 1646). Encyclopedia Virginia. https://www.encyclopediavirginia.org/opechancanough_d_1646

[2] Godfrey Ragsdale II (abt 1643-1703). WikiTree https://www.wikitree.com/wiki/Ragsdale-42

[3] Brenneman, Ricahrd E. Ragsdale Family in America. 1999. Boston, Massachusetts.